In April 2014, I wrote about The Plot Sisters, a vibrant group of five Dayton area writers who I first met in Katrina Kittle’s Character Development class.
They celebrated with me after I successfully pitched to a New York agent. I was thanked for a “well-crafted pitch, the agent noted that my story has a compelling narrative arc, and she asked me to send her a proposal … after I built my platform (a large enough number of followers for a New York agent to actually represent me.)
Christina pointed out that Dayton has a lot of good writers and we support each other. She said, “We can be part of your platform.” Her words were music to my ears. And she didn’t disappoint. She agreed to be one of my beta readers and gave me valuable feedback that strengthened my memoir.
Even though I didn’t build a large enough platform to interest a New York agent in representing me and my publishing path went in a different direction, that hasn’t stopped the Plot Sisters from supporting me. They invited me to be their guest at their December 21 meeting. And do they ever know how to treat their guests.
Some changes have occurred for The Plot Sisters. Traci moved to Oklahoma, but continues to attend their meetings via FaceTime. And Jude Walsh has joined their ranks. Because writing is a solitary activity and can be discouraging as what we have poured our heart and soul into receives rejections, having a support system is vital. I’m grateful for my connection with these wonderful women.
After sharing with me a little about the state of their writing, we launched into a spirited discussion about A Long Awakening to Grace, my writing style and the narrative arc. They noted the humility with which I told my story and how that draws the reader in. They wanted to hear all about my decision to self-publish and we discussed the pros and cons of that publishing path. They inquired as to what I’ll be writing next and had some great suggestions.
Because this meeting occurred on the eve of winter solstice, they brought goodies to share with each other and included me in the sharing. I was thrilled. But then they surprised me with a gift bag. I pulled out a lovely box of notecards adorned with butterflies. What a lovely gift.
And then Jude said, “There’s a little something else in the bottom of the bag.”
I rummaged through tissue paper and pulled out a velvet jewelry box. My eyes widened as I opened the box to find a beautiful butterfly necklace decorated with Black Hills gold. They couldn’t have known how significant receiving this gift was.
When I was twelve, I spotted a birthstone ring in the window of the local jewelry store. It was mounted in Black Hills gold. I fell in love with it and was thrilled when my grandmothers joined together in gifting me with it on the occasion of my confirmation.
The mounting wore away as the years went on. My dad wanted to place it in a new mounting. I protested. Because I loved the uniqueness of that mounting so much, he refreshed it instead. It continues to be one of my most important treasures to this day.
And now, thanks to the generosity of The Plot Sisters, I have a matching necklace. It is already one of my favorite treasures … a lovely reminder of the importance of supporting each other as writers and as women. You all are the best and I am blessed by knowing you and being known by you.
Beautiful! I love that you were drawn to a butterfly as s girl and your grandmas came together to get you the ring, and now again you’ve magnetized support for more butterflies..
The thread of transformation runs through your life, dear Linda.
Happy Healthy Peaceful 2018!
Love,
Ani
Ani, my ring from my grandmothers is very special to me. It isn’t in the shape of a butterfly and it is true that I’ve been drawn to them most of my life. I saw the ring in the jewelry story window and was attracted to the Black Hills Gold setting. It was different than any setting I’d ever seen and I like unique pieces. It cost $12 and my dad said that was too expensive for his mother. So I suggested that both grandmothers go together to get it for me. And they did. And that’s what makes it very special. Yes, it is true as I look back at my life … there is a thread of transformation running through it. I’m grateful for that because there has also been a very difficult to deal with thread. The New Year is beginning well. I’m doing more cleaning out and discarding stuff I no longer need. The pack rat in me is turning over a new leaf. Making room for something new and wonderful to enter in 2018. And may that be so for you, as well, my dear friend.